Thursday, July 30, 2009 @ 5:34 AM
if life were easy,where would all the adventures be?
I just came across this quote and it got my brain power working a little.
well!! as much as we all meet with transgressions along out path filled with posies, it has to be a learning point. At least, I'd like to believe so. Anyhow! I happened to be reading a few blogs posts (of others). One of which was really interesting. It got me reminded of the past actually. (my dreadful past)
The blog was filled with love quotes to a special someone and descriptive writing of every single time the two of them met or spent with each other. The "you're my destiny, you're my happily ever after, you complete me.. and so on." low and behold! they are no longer together.
Somehow it made me think how cliche?
However, no one actually realises their stupidity- in trusting some one and spending nights dreaming about a life together, the house you wanna live in, the number of children you'd want or even the location of your house. I'd like to think, the root cause of this is actually FAIRYTALE fantasies. Listen girls, your other half may seem like a knight in a shinning armour to you now, but not ten or twenty years down the road. (though there are exceptional cases- and i am truly happy for such people. But Generally!)
Even for myself, I do not and i repeat (in bold) DO NOT! deny that i myself was a culprit. When i was much younger, dreaming that the person i was with would be my forever and we'll get married and live happily ever after. The saying goes, age brings wisdom. i agree a hundred and one percent with that. It truly does. Throughout my sick life, i have learnt so many of life's lessons through the mistakes that i have made. Yes, i have paid my heavy price of these painful mistakes but, I'm glad I've got something out of it. And i hope, you, you and you has learnt a valuable lesson too.
cheers to b*t*h a** life.