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Thursday, December 27, 2007 @ 5:30 PM
i read this in some one's blog.
and it was pretty interesting,thought i might as well share it..
so here it goes..
Love can have three dimensions. One, is that of dependence. Which is what happens to the majority of people. The husband is dependent on the wife, the wife on the husband, as a result, they exploit one another. They dominate each other, they posses each other, they reduce each other to a commodity. That is what's happening all over the world most of the time.
Second possibility is love between two independent persons. That is also what happens to people, but that too brings misery. There is constant conflict. No adjustment is possible, both are so independent and nobody is ready to compromise, to adjust with the other.Poets, artists, thinkers, scientist, those who live in a kind of independence at least in their minds, are impossible people to live with cos they are too eccentric. They give freedom to the other, but their freedom looks more like indifference, looks more as if they don't care, like you don't matter. They leave each other to their own spaces. Their relationship is only superficial, they are afraid to go deeper into each other cos they are more attached to their freedom than to love, and they don't wanna compromise.
The third possibility is of interdependence. That happens rarely but whenever it does, a part of paradise fall on Earth. Two persons, neither dependent nor independent, but in a tremendous synchronicity, as if breathing for each other, one soul in two bodies. Whenever that happens, love has happened. Call only this love. The other two are not really love. They are just arrangements, social, psychological, biological, but arrangements. The third is something spiritual.
in roughly three days time I'm gonna be receiving the new year in open arms.mainly because
1. i have many new year resolutions to make.
2. i am gonna make an effort to fulfill them.
3. i need to grow as a person (not that i am not but ya)
4. i have new aspirations for the new year.
5. i badly want a fresh start to forget all the bloopers in my life in 2007
I'm gonna make the most of the coming year and be far away from the regrets.
commitments call.
til then
cheers
for you
and the upcoming year.
took you a little farther away from me
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